Understanding the Executive Functioning Challenge:
Children with unique executive functioning challenges may find it difficult to shift attention and thought processes, getting “stuck” in a task. Moving from one situation to another, especially when initiated activities need to be interrupted, becomes a struggle.
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The Challenge of Everyday Transitions:
Everyday transitions, like stopping a preferred activity to engage in a non-preferred one, can be particularly challenging. Examples include turning off the TV and going to bed or transitioning from playtime with Legos to dinner. These moments provide opportunities for “add-ins,” everyday teachable moments that prepare children for more significant transitions.
Priming for Success:
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Prepare Ahead of Time:
- Inform your child about upcoming transitions, offering a sense of what to expect. This priming reduces anxiety and potentially minimizes challenging behaviors.
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Visual Prompts:
- Utilize visual schedules or nonverbal cues like hand gestures to reinforce verbal requests. This additional support ensures better understanding and compliance.
Back to School Transitions:
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Back to School brings various transitions, including changes in structure, expectations, and interactions. Acknowledge the potential emotional impact and uncertainties surrounding this big shift.. Check in with your child, validate their feelings, and provide guidance through role-playing or acting out scenarios.
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Building Resilience Through Tools:
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Explore tools and resources for facilitating transitions, both big and small. These resources complement efforts to make transitions less anxiety-provoking and more manageable.
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Embracing Change with Love and Support:
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As we successfully navigate daily transitions, we contribute to the development of brain regions crucial for managing changes. By understanding our children’s unique needs and providing the necessary tools, we can make transitions less anxiety-provoking and more manageable. Let’s meet our children where they are, offering the love and support they need to navigate the unpredictable world around them.
Explore additional transition tools and resources to dive into a world of smoother, more successful transitions for your child in my book, Make Social and Emotional Learning Stick! Practical activities to help your child manage emotions, navigate social situations, and reduce anxiety.